Recent Purdue Graduate Words of wisdom to the class of 2020
I’ll be honest. When you think of that girl in class who has her entire week planned out, even down to what meal she is going to cook on what night, that’s me.
My favorite two days every semester occur during syllabus week, a time when I can write every assignment from every professor for the entire semester. For all new Boilermakers, syllabus week happens the first week of classes every semester and you review the syllabus in class … for most classes. Take advance of this time while you are reviewing the semester’s assignments and due dates by completing your planner.
I love planning and I love schedules. I like to think of my planning addiction as a type of goal setting exercise. I write what I want to accomplish every week, and it’s not complete until I actually mark the line through it. That’s actually another one of my greatest joys—crossing off tasks that I want to do after they are finished. I honestly believe that without weekly goals, I would never get anything accomplished.
Writing things down is a motivation for me because I hate seeing things in my planner that I didn’t get to cross off. The feeling is comparable to my grandparents saying they are disappointed in me; it’s that serious! This technique can also be used for long-term goals too, which is basically a glorified way of me saying I want to plan my work outs so I can get my high school body back by the end of summer.
It’s still the same concept, though. I plan out what I want to do, week by week, to get to my end result. It worked well for me during college, so I am more than optimistic that it will also work after college.
The things I’ve mentioned for goal-setting are fairly juvenile. I mean, it’s not like I am setting goals for my ten-year plan or anything, even though now that I think about it, I probably should start that soon.
The key aspects of goal setting I have learned through college and personal life are to be realistic with yourself. Don’t tell anyone how much you love to plan things. Make sure your goals are attainable
for you, or else you will get discouraged. It doesn’t make sense to say you are going to work out for three hours after you get home from work and then cook a five course meal. That doesn’t even sound enjoyable! And I’m really stressing here, keep your planning addiction to yourself because people love to mess with you. They will start inviting you to things, like the bars when they know you have an exam tomorrow morning, just because they know that it will torment you and ruin your chances of getting your goals accomplished for the day. Just do what I do, think to yourself: “what would my grandparents want me to do”… and you will usually make the right decision.